I almost don't even know where to start. 3400 miles, 11 nights, 4 different hotels, 3 congested reactions to Bakersfield air, 2 teeth cutting through, 1 baby with a cold...
We left Houston at 3 in the morning the Friday before Thanksgiving. The plan was always to get as many miles as possible between us and Houston on the very first day, expecting everyone's tolerance levels to drop drastically on day 2. Impressively, we put 1100 miles behind us and arrived in Tuscon Friday evening, though we ran into a few problems. The cold front hit West Texas around the same time we did and we had ice forming on the front of our car, the side mirrors, the antenna and the windows. Once we got through that, it was the strong crosswinds in New Mexico that ended in a dust storm James attempted to navigate while Connor, who reached his limit, screamed for the last 30 minutes of the night.
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| Munching on an apple slice as we drive through New Mexico |
The original plan had been to leave Tuscon bright and early, but we ended up choosing an extra hour or so of sleep over an early start. Ate breakfast at the hotel, and headed out. Day 2, with its mere 600 miles, was a breeze as long as we stopped regularly to give Connor a moment to stretch his legs. We got in to Bakersfield later than expected and tired, but happy to see family. It took only a few minutes for our tired brood to relax and begin to explore the new toys Nana's house provided. More family showed up and it was a loud moment as Connor and Carter were introduced, I got to see Grandy for the first time in 5 years, the missionaries showed up, and we enjoyed a BBQ dinner for the evening (including the boudin James had us bring for everyone to try).
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| Two of three triplet cousins and their first meeting |
Sunday was a quieter start. James and I snuck off for a date, since it was the only open time slot provided to us and our over-booked schedule with family for the rest of the week. We checked out a breakfast place suggested by Seth and Nicole and were extremely pleased with the experience. Good food and lots of it for a more than decent price. My chicken-fried steak was big enough I took half of it home for a filling lunch after church.
We went to church with mom. I wasn't sure how the girls would handle going to a different primary, but it went about as expected. I'm told Cadence did okay, which says so much about how much she has matured over the past few months. Megan, however, would not leave Nana's side. James and I sat in the foyer with a restless Connor and decided to leave after the 2nd hour (Though, after hearing how well Cadence had done, I wish we'd let her finish out the experience and go to 3rd hour, but Megan tends to get sulky and anti-social even in our home ward lately, so I doubt she would have flourished at all in the new ward).
Erin and her family arrived Sunday evening and the chaos doubled. The girls were exhausted by the whole experience thus far and put themselves to bed shortly after everyone else left.
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| Jelly donut. He ate way more of it than I expected. I snatched the last bit away, which he was not happy about |
Monday through Wednesday were a touch quieter. Monday we spent the day at dad's house, visiting with him, Grandy and Chad. I took a moment to duck out and get my hair cut for the first time since June, as our recent pictures had only emphasized how much I hated my hair as it was (too long and unstyled). I brought back pastrami sandwiches from Frosty King, something I had been craving since my 2nd trimester with Connor. James then left to go spend the afternoon with his grandfather and we continued our quiet afternoon with my dad and Grandy, finishing off the visit with some gumbo, before once again going home so the girls could beg for pajamas and bedtime.
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| Coloring at Grandpa's house |
Tuesday and Wednesday we spent the mornings and afternoon in Taft to visit with James's family. Tuesday evening we briefly met with Emilee and Jeremy at the park after moving in to our hotel and Wednesday evening was busy with Thanksgiving preparations.
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| Swinging at the park in his snazzy new jacket |
Thanksgiving was... chaotic, as was most of the week, but pleasant. Between trying to get some family pictures taken and playing board games with family and just sitting in the living room and trying to keep the kids from destroying the place, everyone was kept busy right up to the moment dinner itself was served.
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| Only a small portion of the chaos Tuesday night |
By Friday, we were ready to go home, at least I was, emotionally/mentally. James, unfortunately, got sick from the stress of traveling and had to stay at the hotel to recover. I took the kids out to Taft for one final visit on our last day, then we went back to the hotel for lunch and a moment to get as much packed/prepped as possible for our departure the next day. Then it was back to Nana's house for one last evening. I left the kids to pick up a few things for James and drop them off, then swung by the hospital to visit Grandy (who had picked up Chad's cold and had to be admitted on Thanksgiving, unfortunately). James, by this point, was feeling a bit better, so he ventured out with me and spent the last couple hours at my mom's house, where we had a drawn-out cutthroat round of Uno before we herded our tired brood back to the hotel.
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| Cousins +1 at dinner Tuesday night |
Saturday might be the longest day we had all week. Though we were out the door an hour earlier than initially planned, the day took way too long. Connor did not have the patience he'd had on day 1 of travelling. We landed in Phoenix for a visit with an old friend of mine and a chance for the kids to run around for an hour or two, but it wasn't enough of a break. Our goal was Las Cruces, but between sleepy truck drivers making us nervous and Connor getting extra fussy, we pulled over about 120 miles short of our goal. The receptionist was sympathetic and gave us a discount, though considering we had pre-pair for our hotel in Las Cruces, it was the most expensive EconoLodge we ever stayed in, but it was clean and the beds were comfortable and we were tired. It was perfect.
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| Grandpa Jim & Connor. This picture is so getting framed. |
Sunday went surprisingly well. Partially because Connor had picked up his uncle's cold and as long as we kept him supplied with tylenol, he was fine with sleeping most of the way. We made it all the way to San Antonio in decent time. Knowing we were only 3 hours from home and had no need to rush, I think we were able to really relax for the first time in awhile. We ordered pizza, watched movies on the TV and even dragged our suitcase out instead of our overnight bags so we could all shower/bathe and dress in clean clothes.
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| Connor and Carter "fighting" over a toy |
We took our time leaving the hotel Monday morning, enjoying the breakfast (where I almost broke their waffle iron, oops). James and I browsed the "things to do" brochures and discussed a return to San Antonio for a simpler family vacation in the future. We meandered our way back to Houston, even stopping about halfway to rearrange the carseats, hoping having his sisters back beside him (instead of in the backseat as they had been for the rest of the trip) would ease Connor into thinking all was back to normal to give us the last hour and a half we needed. It worked, by the way. He fussed a bit, but lulled himself back to sleep until we got home as long as Cadence reached over to touch him and talk to him.
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| Complete meltdown because I left him behind to run into the gas station and pee. |
We are glad to be home! I might be a bit happier if Connor had slept well or if the laundry was already washed and put away, but the kids are in a good mood and I'm giving myself permission to take it easy today. The kids are also liking the fact that I took out my bucket of Christmas decorations and have already put up our stockings and James's shotgun shell lights around the fireplace. We'll go tree shopping next weekend. I also browsed Cyber Monday deals and found an great option for buying dolls I'd been considering for the girls (I got both for $50 instead of the $80 total they were originally!) and picked up a few things for Connor that James really wanted to get him.
There are more pictures, but they're on other people's cameras and I don't have access to them yet, which is why there are so few of the girls. I do have video I shall attempt to upload for a "California 2013 addendum" post.